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Carer's Assessment: How to Request Support for Yourself
If you care for someone, you may be entitled to your own assessment — separate from the person you support. Describe carer strain plainly.
Guide summary
If you care for someone, you may be entitled to your own assessment — separate from the person you support. Describe carer strain plainly.
- Contact adult social care at the council for the area where the person you care for lives (or your own area — confirm local rule).
- Request a carer's assessment in writing with your contact details.
- Prepare examples: tasks you do, time per week, what happens if you cannot care.
- Attend assessment (phone, video, or home visit) with honest worst-week examples.
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- 1Contact adult social care at the council for the area where the person you care for lives (or your own area — confirm local rule).
- 2Request a carer's assessment in writing with your contact details.
- 3Prepare examples: tasks you do, time per week, what happens if you cannot care.
Quick answer
A carer's assessment looks at your needs as someone providing care — breaks, training, equipment, and wellbeing. It is run by the local authority and is separate from the cared-for person's needs assessment. You can often request one even if the person you care for has refused social care for themselves.
Use this guide if…
- Adults caring for a family member or friend who is disabled, ill, or older.
- Carers providing regular care without being paid as a professional care worker.
- Young carers may have different routes — check local young carer services.
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If you care for someone, you may be entitled to your own assessment — separate from the person you support. Describe carer strain plainly.
What to do next
- Adults caring for a family member or friend who is disabled, ill, or older.
- Carers providing regular care without being paid as a professional care worker.
- Young carers may have different routes — check local young carer services.
These are the errors that most often slow people down or weaken their case.
What to do next
- Only describing the cared-for person's needs without your own strain.
- Underreporting hours because care feels 'normal'.
- Assuming you must live with the person to qualify.
- Not following up when promised respite never materialises.
Keep written records and use the escalation routes below.
What to do next
- Ask for written reasons if no support is offered.
- Contact Carers UK or local carers centre for advocacy.
- Complain through council complaints process if assessment delayed unreasonably.
- Check whether the cared-for person's needs assessment should be reopened in parallel.
Step-by-step
Your progress
Step 1 of 6
Contact adult social care at the council for the area where the person you care for lives (or your own area — confirm local rule).
What this means
- Prepare: Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
- Check: Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
Practical checklist
- Contact adult social care at the council for the area where the person you care for lives (or your own area — confirm local rule).
- Prepare: Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
- Check: Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
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If you care for someone, you may be entitled to your own assessment — separate from the person you support. Describe carer strain plainly.
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Evidence checklist
Keep or gather these before you contact an organisation or submit a form.
- Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
- Impact on your health, sleep, work, and relationships.
- Employment situation if you reduced hours or stopped work.
- GP letter about stress, injury from caring, or mental health impact (optional but useful).
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Carer strain log (one week)
Mon — hours: [ ] Tasks: [medication, washing, night watch…] Sleep lost: [ ] Tue — … Work impact: [missed shifts / reduced hours] Health impact: [pain, anxiety, injury] What would help most: [respite / training / equipment]
Common mistakes
- Only describing the cared-for person's needs without your own strain.
- Underreporting hours because care feels 'normal'.
- Assuming you must live with the person to qualify.
- Not following up when promised respite never materialises.
If they refuse, delay, or ignore you
- Ask for written reasons if no support is offered.
- Contact Carers UK or local carers centre for advocacy.
- Complain through council complaints process if assessment delayed unreasonably.
- Check whether the cared-for person's needs assessment should be reopened in parallel.
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Guide summary
- Contact adult social care at the council for the area where the person you care for lives (or your own area — confirm local rule).
- Request a carer's assessment in writing with your contact details.
- Prepare examples: tasks you do, time per week, what happens if you cannot care.
- Attend assessment (phone, video, or home visit) with honest worst-week examples.
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At a glance
- Respite breaks or replacement care so you can rest.
- Carer training or advice sessions.
- Equipment to help with caring tasks.
- Signposting to local carer organisations.
- Your description of caring hours and tasks (day and night).
- Impact on your health, sleep, work, and relationships.
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